Here comes....Rene from Germany!!
A little bit about my background, so it is a bit easier to understand my perspective. Almost exactly ten years ago, I was still a quite introverted boy in that went on an exchange to a high school inWisconsin, USA. I was there for only one semester, but I think it is responsible for infecting me with the travelling bug. My experience from back then was basically that going to another place also means a chance to be someone else.
Back at home, it is easy to get caught and remain in the picture that the people around you have. But I realised that a little bit too late.But life is full of once-in-a-lifetime-chances. After graduating from high school and being exempted from military service, I did not want to go to university and continue studying. I needed a break from that and went to work for one year at Disney World in Florida at the German pavillion.
That was basically a lifechanging experience, as all the internationals were living together. I shared my apartment with people from Italy, Japan, Kenya, South Africa, India and Trinidad & Tobago. Living there, I made a lot of friends from south east asia and enjoyed their food and hospitality. Living there was a tremendous experience that helped me a lot to open up and to become more outgoing.Eventually I had to go back and start studying of course.
I believe because I was missing that international feeling there, I joined AIESEC(it took a while until I knew that there was such an organisation). In 2004 I travelled for the first time to Asia and stayed for 2 months with a Chinese family in Kuching, Sarawak, Malaysia. A year later I went on a internship for 9 months in Singapore and in 2007 I returned again for a two month visit. My stays in Asia have been partially challenging and there are still many things, especially culture wise where I have only scratched the surface. Still I want to come back and learn more.
Ok, enough about the background, let's get to the questions:
1. When I go back to (your country), I'll take ....
a lot memories, great new friendships, tons of photographs and usually the desire to come back. Waiting at home to wait for everyone to visit me is too boring. To those that want to visit me anyways: Hurry up lah ;)
2. What things do you do in Singapore which you never did before at home? Or rarely do...
Probably eating out almost all the time. The food is so cheap in Asia. But that is also due to the fact that I was reluctant to invest a lot into cooking utensils. Here in Germany, I have to cook most of the time or else I would go bankrupt. My advice for everyone that goes on exchange outside Asia: Learn to cook!- it saves money- helps if you are missing the food from home (you will and McDonalds does not count)- is a great way to socialise, invite people and ask them to cook something as well (if cannot cook well, just tell them it is supposed to look and taste that way ;)
Here in Germany, it is normal to give good friends a hug when meeting or parting (though guys usually do not do that to each others). It is a sign of feeling comfortable with the other person. And yes, there are different degrees to hugging: from a simple gesture to a heartfelt bear hug. However in Asia, I often have to restrain myself from doing that, mostly because I did not know if the other person was feeling comfortable with that. And asking about that would have been weird.
4. What change of mentality did you experience?It took me a long time to understand how strong the family bonds really are. I feel that I am brought up to be more independent, being able to make my decisions, even if my parents disagree. However, having a bunch of close Asian friends with whom I discussed this a lot, I believe that my own thinking changed about this as well a little. Even though I am very independent from my family, I do feel more responsbile towards them nowadays. Or maybe that is just me growing up.
5. What was your most memorable experience in Singapore thus far?
This one is tough to answer. I do not think that I can single out one experience. It is rather the whole time that I spent in Asia. May it be the food, the people on the MRT, the hot and humid climate or the aunties and uncles at the kopitiams. :)
cheers,
rene
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